Thats the love potion from New Zealand-based authors Burton Silver and Martin OConnor, who have written Everything He Hasnt Told You Yet: A New Way to Get Men Talking About Stuff That Matters (Ten Speed Press), and say that getting your man to talk takes some crafty questions and a few beers.
For example, instead of directly asking your guy if hes ready to settle down, OConnor says giving him a bizarre scenario, like asking him to come up with names for animals can give you some insight.
If he gives the animals a male and female name, hes ready to commit. But if he names them all after dudes, hes more likely to pop open a beer than pop the question.
Although throwing back a few cold ones may also help your man open up to you.
Adds Silver: Getting him drunk first helps enormously, at least in my case. Theyll reveal all sorts of secrets, but women have to be careful with the information they receive.
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